The title of this piece could have been “as time goes by” in truth. One day, one event, one memory collides with another and before long, so much time has passed that it becomes impossible to separate out the events. But then, we recall a special day in our past that was so significant that we open that memory vault to draw upon all the aspects of that day and how it now relates to our own grand kids.
Case in point, being a part of the preparation for our granddaughters graduation from high school. It’s become a blend of events that began all those years ago when our first born was a graduate. I won’t lie and say it feels like it was yesterday.
Now we are watching this next generation step up to that podium, in cap and gown, to complete this incredible journey that they don’t even quite realize is so extraordinary. Years of education are now behind them with the shift to the thing that comes next…a step forward to a higher education or a focus to beginning a career in what seems like only moments after the display of colorful hats are tossed in the air.
Reflecting on high school graduation through the lens of our relationship as grandparents has been deeply meaningful.
It has, in its own way, marked a personal milestone and a continuation of the family's story. Each graduate, will carry the values, sacrifices and dreams forward, especially if there has been a strong relationship built on this foundation.
As grandparents, we may not have had the same challenges as are faced today, but we can see that same pride in the eyes of the graduate that truly symbolizes progress, resilience and hope.
Similar to what our parents may have felt for us all those years ago.
Times have changed, yes, indeed. Reflecting on those changes in a positive way can offer a new sense of pride and inspiration for our graduates to build on the very legacy that we started.
That’s how we’ll reflect on this special occasion…with the hope that our families garnered for us.
Congratulations to ALL the graduates who are making memories this year…have fun, trust the process and
By all means, take a minute to thank your grandparents, near or far, for laying the groundwork for you to carry forward.
Pat Larsen, lives, works and plays in Greene County, NY with her husband of 52 years.
You can reach Pat at 518-275-8686 to chat about your story if you’d like. She loves to garner inspiration for future columns.
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