There’s an “exchange” that runs between all of us.
It takes on a form that is either spoken or implied between us that occurs quite naturally, often without being noticed. Unlike money, it doesn’t deplete when spent but actually grows outwardly the more it then circulates.
It’s the multifaceted aspect of “the exchange” that can make or break friendships, family connections and even that expression that we have to a family pet. Or it can simply be the glue that continuously connects us through our quieter less obvious efforts to encourage each other that nourishes and binds us. Our relationships can then develop or can help us to grow richer still, as more of this intention circulates within the connections we perpetuate.
Between friends, this might be our way of encouraging each other with sincere honesty and through deep mindful listening whether that is occasional contact or on a day to day basis.
The exchanges between families often call for a bit more patience, simply because there is an expectation already embedded in each of us that goes beyond occasional because of the deep roots we share.
Then, simply put, it’s those expressions of love without words, that enhance the exchanges we might have that deepens bonds throughout our years together.
Our pets share the secret code also that they use to connect to us and then “we” to them. This is expressed through their eyes or perhaps with a wag of their tails that shows their appreciation.
In our household, that exchange is often manifested through a game of fetch with a favorite toy. We all are left with a true feeling of the literal connections that our brains and our bodies so appreciate.
Yes. It's a bond that is chemical as well and in a literal sense that is released in hormonal ways.
Each transaction between individuals reminds us in not so subtle ways that we are indeed important and do matter to each other.
We might not realize how significant this concept is because it doesn’t always announce itself. I could be through a conversation that shows acknowledgement or perhaps in the ongoing defining of small aspects of our relationships that adds up even if in silent less obvious ways.
Every time we interact-whether through words or through presence…something is exchanged. It might be laughter for reassurance or a sympathetic glance of camaraderie.
That’s the beauty of “the exchange.”
Think of the electrical lines that connect us without fail.
Remember that in every relationship, new or old, we have a keen sense of each other's moods, the words contained within the silences, and the potential warmth contained in a gesture.
“Whether it’s spoken or not, deliberate or instinctive, every exchange reminds us that we matter to someone-and that, in turn, gives us something priceless to pass on.
Think about your relationships in this way and acknowledge the frequency of the exchanges that you have to fully comprehend how very gifted you are…it literally will enhance the way you live your life.
Pat Larsen is a syndicated columnist who lives, works, plays and prays with her husband of 52 years and their pup, Lily.
She loves hearing from her readership, feel free to email her at pelarsen5@aol.com or by phone 518-275-8686 if you have a story to share.
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